Calling Your Power Back Without War

There comes a moment on the path where calling your power back stops sounding like battle language… and starts feeling like remembering who you are.

In the early stages, calling your power back often looks dramatic. You imagine cord cutting. Closing portals. Declaring spiritual sovereignty out loud. Saying strong prayers. Doing protection rituals. Sometimes you are simply trying to feel safe inside your own skin again.

There is nothing wrong with this phase.

For many of us, it appears after heartbreak, betrayal, illness, spiritual confusion, or nervous system overwhelm. The psyche needs something clear and decisive. The warrior archetype wakes up because she knows how to protect, how to push back, how to keep you alive.

And yet… as the journey unfolds… something quieter arrives.

A tenderness.

A stillness.

A deepening.

You begin to see that calling your power back is not just about force. It is about remembering that your power was never completely gone.

Somewhere along the way, consciously or unconsciously, you stepped away from yourself. You learned to abandon your truth in order to belong. You learned to dim so others felt comfortable. You learned to perform so you were not rejected.

Seeing this does not create shame. It creates relief.

Because if you once stepped away… you can step back in. If you once agreed… you can gently withdraw that agreement.

This is where calling your power back becomes softer, more embodied, more mature. It becomes less about fighting energy outside of you… and more about restoring the authority you hold inside.

You will recognise these threads if you have explored The Field Of Self Worth, where power is woven through nervous system safety, embodiment, and sovereignty that lives in the body.

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When calling your power back feels like war

Most people begin with fire.

Something hurts. Something collapses. Something inside finally breaks. And suddenly you are no longer willing to be walked over, ignored, dismissed, or taken advantage of.

So calling your power back looks like:

• unfollowing and blocking

• closing energetic doors

• saying no even when your voice shakes

• speaking prayers that sound like shields

• protecting yourself fiercely from anything that feels unsafe

And honestly… this is sacred. There is a holiness in the moment someone says… enough.

The warrior protects the heart while it learns to heal. She is not wrong. She is necessary.

The difficulty appears when we mistake this phase for the destination. If identity becomes glued to the warrior, calling your power back stays rigid, reactive, guarded, and loud. The nervous system never softens. You are strong… but constantly braced.

The warrior is not meant to run the kingdom forever.

There is a point where protection must evolve into presence. Where fight matures into grounded clarity. Where survival transforms into sovereignty.

This transition is explored beautifully in When The Warrior Bows And The Queen Ascends where true power is held quietly, not forced.

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Your power was not stolen… it was offered!

This truth can feel uncomfortable at first, but it opens a doorway to profound freedom.

Most of the time, your power was not violently ripped away.

It was offered slowly.

You handed pieces of yourself over in exchange for safety, affection, acceptance, and belonging. And you did it because you needed to survive.

You may recognise yourself here:

• ignoring intuition so nobody became upset

• downplaying disrespect to avoid confrontation

• laughing off hurt so you seemed easy going

• staying quiet when something crossed your boundaries

• saying yes when your whole body was screaming no

Those were not failures. Those were strategies. They helped you stay connected in environments that did not yet know how to hold your truth.

But here lies the miracle.

If power was given… it can be reclaimed.

If consent existed… it can be revoked.

Calling your power back becomes less like storming a castle… and more like cancelling old energetic contracts. It is not violent. It is not cruel. It is simply honest.

You wake up one day and say:

I no longer agree to abandon myself.

I no longer offer my energy in exchange for crumbs.

I no longer confuse love with self-erasure.

This is calling your power back.

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The limits of living as the warrior

The warrior archetype has gifts. Strength. Clarity. Survival. Focus. She gets things done.

But she also has limits.

When your entire identity is built around fight… softness feels unsafe. Intimacy feels threatening. Receiving feels like losing control. You stay armoured, alert, vigilant, ready for something to go wrong.

And this prevents deeper archetypes from opening inside you.

The Queen sits on her throne without defending herself.

The Empress receives support without guilt.

The Mystic trusts unseen guidance.

The High Priestess lives from deep inner listening.

These archetypes cannot live in a body that is permanently braced.

They begin to return as the nervous system relearns safety, grounding, and deep rest. This is why gentle nervous-system awareness and trauma-informed embodiment practices become such powerful allies when calling your power back. Tools like RASA Full Body Scan Meditations offer a way to bring somatic presence into your awareness and restore safety in the body, while the work of Dr. Joe Dispenza explores how shifting your inner state and nervous system coherence supports lasting change and embodied transformation. These practices help the body remember that it is safe to soften, to feel, and to hold its own power again.

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Power that softens is power that lasts

Softness is not weakness

Softness has been misunderstood.

People imagine passivity or collapse. But genuine softness is not about disappearing. True softness has a backbone.

Calling your power back from softness looks like:

• saying… I need time to think… instead of rushing to please

• quietly leaving conversations that dishonour you

• refusing to argue with someone’s projection

• honoring your limits without apology

• choosing stillness over chaos

Softness does not erase boundaries.

Softness allows boundaries to be rooted, elegant, calm, unshakeable. It lets your nervous system exhale instead of constantly performing strength.

This is part of the transmission inside Choosing Beauty Over Chaos, where beauty, coherence, and devotion themselves become grounded power.

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What calling your power back really means

Calling your power back is not constant hyper vigilance. It is not endlessly scanning for spiritual threat. It is not shouting declarations into the sky every day because you feel fragile.

Calling your power back is orientation toward truth.

You begin noticing…

• where resentment keeps whispering

• where people pleasing creates fatigue

• where your body tenses the second you say yes

• where self abandonment has become automatic

And then you gently withdraw permission.

I withdraw the silent agreements that cost me myself.

I call my power back into my body, heart, voice, life.

I release any belief that my worth lives outside me.

You repeat. You embody. You practice. And slowly everything begins to reorganize.

Relationships recalibrate.

Old identities dissolve.

New boundaries arise naturally.

Nothing dramatic happens on the surface… yet internally everything shifts.

That is calling your power back.

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Practical ways to call your power back daily

Here is where this work becomes real.

1. Name your energy leaks. Notice specific conversations, environments, or habits that drain you. Write them down. Awareness creates choice.
2. Practice micro boundariesInstead of huge confrontations, begin with small acts.Let me think about it…Not today…That does not work for me…

These micro acts re-pattern the nervous system safely.

3. Honor signals from your body: Tight throat. Shallow breath. Knotted stomach. These are messages. The body always tells the truth.
4. Replace obligation with devotion: Stop doing things because you feel you should. Begin doing them because they feel aligned, purposeful, sacred.
5. Rest before you burn out: Rest is an act of sovereignty. Rest protects the throne.
6. Tell yourself the truth first: Even if you cannot say it out loud yet, whisper it inwardly. Truth inside creates truth outside.

Each of these choices is quietly calling your power back every single day.

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What shifts once your power returns

Calling your power back changes the texture of life.

You become slower, but clearer.

More grounded, less reactive.

More open, yet deeply discerning.

People may say you have changed. But in truth, you have simply come home.

You stop chasing people who misunderstand you.

You stop trying to prove your goodness.

You stop begging to belong in places that wound you.

Instead, you begin choosing environments that honour your nervous system and spirit. And from there, everything becomes less dramatic.

Calling your power back is not about becoming hardened. It is about becoming rooted.

You are no longer performing sovereignty.

You are seated in sovereignty.

And from that seat… there is no need to fight.

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A final blessing for your journey

If you are still in the fiery chapter, trust it. The warrior is walking you somewhere important.

And when the next invitation comes, you will know. Softness will no longer feel like danger. It will feel like home.

You are not losing power. You are integrating it.

Every time you choose alignment over approval…

every time you choose truth over people pleasing…

every time you choose softness with a spine…

you are calling your power back.

Quietly. Steadily. Without war.

Your power was never destroyed. It was simply waiting for you to return.

And now… you remember.