Life Gets To Be This Easy: A Decree of Worthiness

Before you begin:
If you feel drawn to reclaim self worth and feminine softness, you may also enjoy reading The Field of Self Worth. It deepens and supports this Decree of Worthiness in a beautiful way.

Why We Forget We Are Worthy: The Beginning Of A Decree of Worthiness

There comes a moment on the healing path when something shifts quietly.

Not through force.
Not through striving.

But through a simple breath.

For many of us, struggle became identity. We grew up believing that strength meant carrying everything, fixing everything, surviving everything.

Struggle became our badge of honour.
Endurance became belonging.
Exhaustion felt normal.

Even spirituality can turn into endless processing, constant introspection, and never arriving.

Buried beneath it is a quiet belief.

Ease is not for me yet.

That belief shapes our nervous system, our relationships, our choices, and our sense of worth.

This is why a Decree of Worthiness matters.

When Healing Completes And A Decree of Worthiness Begins

There comes a point when constant shadow work is not the medicine anymore.

The body learns something new:

Life does not need to be a battlefield.

A cycle closes.
A chapter completes.
The nervous system whispers:

You are allowed to rest now.

This is not denial.
This is not pretending.

This is the doorway to a Decree of Worthiness. It is the moment you stop identifying with pain and begin creating from softness instead of survival.

If this speaks to you, you may also resonate with my writing on Living From Stability, Safety and Feminine Power. It explores this transition even more deeply.

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The Decree of Worthiness

Let this be read slowly. Let it be breathed into your body. This is the heart of the work.

A Decree of Worthiness For Allowing Ease

I am allowed to let life soften around me.

I create from ease instead of pressure.
I create from being instead of forcing.

I do not have to live in battle mode anymore.

I am strong.
And I am also gentle.

I am allowed to receive.
I am allowed to soften.
I am allowed relief.

I no longer need to prove myself.
Not to anyone. Not even to me.

I am worthy.

I am worthy of softness.
I am worthy of beauty.
I am worthy of abundance.
I am worthy of tenderness, elegance, and ease.

I am worthy of nice things.
I am worthy of feminine softness.
I am worthy of gentle love.
I am worthy of protection.
I am worthy of provision.
I am worthy of good friends, good hearts, and a good life.

I no longer tolerate hardness.
I no longer accept environments that exhaust my nervous system.
I release relationships that are unsafe for my spirit.

I am worthy of ease.
I am worthy of healing.
I am worthy of a life that feels peaceful and kind.

Something inside me has completed.
I am no longer identifying with struggle.

I step into a season of softness, without guilt.

Life gets to be more beautiful for me.
Life gets to feel lighter, calmer, more flowing.

I am allowed.

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Why A Decree of Worthiness Can Feel Uncomfortable At First

Claiming worthiness can feel unfamiliar.

Sometimes friends withdraw.
Sometimes people misunderstand.
Sometimes it stirs judgment in others.

Not because you have changed for the worse, but because your freedom gently exposes where others still cling to struggle.

There may also be an internal fear.

Is it really safe to let life be this easy?

This is simply your nervous system adjusting to a new reality. A Decree of Worthiness is not instant comfort. It is gradual softening.

Softness takes practice.
Receiving takes courage.
Allowing takes trust.

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How To Live Your Decree of Worthiness In Daily Life

This is not about pretending life is perfect. It is about coming into right relationship with yourself again.

Begin gently.

• Rest without apologising
• Stop over explaining your joy
• Choose environments where your body relaxes
• Allow support when it is offered
• Notice when you create struggle where none is needed

Ask yourself:

What would this look like if it were easier?

Let life begin answering that question.

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A Closing Invitation: Continue Your Decree of Worthiness

You do not have to earn softness.
You do not have to justify ease.

You are allowed to enter a new chapter without dragging the old one behind you.

Life can be gentler than you imagined.
Kinder than you expected.
More nourishing than your past allowed you to believe.

And you are worthy of it.

Always.

If this Decree of Worthiness spoke to you, I invite you to keep exploring these themes here on the blog. Continue reading, stay close, let this softness keep unfolding inside you.

Continue the Journey

Related Articles on ClaireDaley.com

1. Your Power Was Not Stolen… It Was Offered
An exploration of how sovereignty is not taken from us but unconsciously handed away, and how true worth begins when we reclaim authorship of our own energy.

2. Healing Your Nervous System Gently
A somatic approach to restoring safety in the body so self-worth can land without force, pressure, or spiritual bypassing.

3. Calling Your Power Back Without Fighting Life
How to return to your centre, stop bracing against reality, and let worthiness emerge through softness rather than survival.

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Further Reading

1. The Nervous System and Self-Worth: Psychology Today
A grounded psychological look at how early attachment and safety shape our capacity to feel deserving, supported, and secure.

2. Polyvagal Theory and the Capacity to Receive: NICABM
An in-depth exploration of why receiving, rest, and dignity can initially feel threatening to a nervous system conditioned by hyper-vigilance or self-abandonment.